“My desires in a relationship have changed over time. I no longer want someone who promises to always love me and never leave me, I need someone who understands that life happens and sometimes things don’t work out. I don’t want someone who sugar coats things and never gets angry with me, I need someone to tell me how it really is and put me in my place... I am complete without you. But with you, I want to be so much better. I want to be stronger with you. I want us to grow together and help each other grow individually. I don’t need you, but I really fucking want you.” — Anonymous
“Loneliness does not come from being alone, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important.” -C.G. Jung
"You were so beautiful that everyone wanted a piece of you until you broke." - MariaKarenina Es
"People fall in love without reason, without even wanting it. You can't predict it. That's love." - Haruki Murakami
“I still love the people I’ve loved, even if I cross the street to avoid them.” - Uma Thurman
"Accept the fact that you will grow apart from people you’ve had significant relationships with. Understand when someone no longer positively affects your life. Let them go. Don’t hinder your growth.” —lyjerria
- Relationships are hard work. Its just that in today's world, finding someone else is pretty easy. There isn't much incentive. People are ready to dump the other person for crap reasons, while not looking at the person itself. They're not ready to let go of their egos. They're not ready to work. They'd be happy to find someone as close to what it is they want, thinking that that needs the least amount of work. Unless extreme circumstances dictate, the solution can never be to let it go.
So yes, you may grow apart, but you also grow together. People are ready to work hard for themselves. But when its for an 'us', they run. They give justifications, reasons, excuses. They have no idea what they are doing. And such people dare to call any thing that they have love. (Jimmy Solanki)
В браке, один связан свободой другого.
Насколько ж более зависимы те, от кого зависят.
Проблема в браке не в другом, но в себе, что есть - любовь.
"Человек может быть для другого только целью, но не средством" (И. Кант).
"В любви нет победителей" (неизвестный автор).
Жизнь - привелегия, а любовь и родственные отношения - роскошь.
Даже в самом добром и добропорядочном человеке есть немного "гавна".
Если на протяжении времени тебя не покидает чувство, что от кого-то воняет, вполне возможно, что источником запаха являешься именно ты.